I have to learn to be a friend.
No, i dont mean it that way.
i mean, i actually really have to learn how to be a friend.
how to be;
selfless!!!
Damn, of all the characters in the world to get stuck with,
WHY MUST I BE THE TYPE TO BE STUCK WITH A SELFISH PERSONALITY?!?
oh, and i think i have to learn to drop my pride.
i have to learn to hug more,
and to shut up when people are down.
***worst time to give advises is when its too late***
and i have to learn to learn.
REMINDER TO SELF:
1.you are not better than people. Everryone has their welanesses and strengths so why must you point their weakenesses out? Are you any better?
2. cant blame anyone for anything. you do not know their expereinces, you do not know what it is like to be them.
3.walking in someone's shoes is a theory. it is practically impossible. learn to be as empathetic as possible.
4. appologise (fuk! it aint dat hard!)
5.love. and let them know.
Friday, November 2, 2007
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3 comments:
very true..I think everyone stuggles to be selfless...its natural human inclination to think of yourself first b4 anyonelse, although some people have this inclination in stronger concentration..
Im glad your working on being friend...I should do the same.. one can never perfect it, there is always room for improvement
...'tis not so easy but, very expedient.
learn to love.....it is the greatest, most potent phrase ever!
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