If you got with a partner, and you two have been dating for a few years
you two have discussed marriage and you've made plans for it although you arent engaged
And then after a while, you realise that he or she has some learning disability or even worse... read on...
1.would it impair the way you feel about the person?
2.would you still marry such a person?
3.would your answer be different if you found out it wasnt just a learning disability, but a dominant disorder i.e theres a good chance your kids will have learning disabilities
4. would you remain with your current partner if they were suddenly diagnosed with a debilitating disorder (such as ALS or Lou-Gherig's disease) which will eventually disable them from moving or speaking, and eventually kills them?
Sorry, i know these questions are esxtreme but i have my reasons. And no, this isnt about me. Please answer accordingly. thanks
Wednesday, May 9, 2007
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these are some deep questions....i think i may(note the use of the word MAY)remain wit the person...cos if it were me i wouldnt want to be abadoned ...and God who is allknowing knosw why this its happening
that's crazy first time hearing of this ALS
This Is a question You ask yourself if your "love" is
THAT REAL
I HONESTLY don't think I can prepare myself for this
Knowing the facts and all
before you mention #4
I was like Its not so bad
cause you've been with the person
for a few years and
went as far as discussing marriage so he/she can't be that bad
but the not moving or speaking and eventually killing em part is too much
honest opinion
but Like Pink-Satin said
if it were me i wouldn't want to be abandoned
at this point its about how deep is your "LOVE"
Pink Satin and G: i hear you. No one wants to be abandoned regardless what their situation is but when we're on the other side and we do have a choice, we'd probably leave the person.
thanks for the honesty
so who or whats is this post all about?
Am a stay checking up on you
yeah i would if you care about someone you should be able to help them through their disabilities/problems
G- its inspired by a true story that i really dont feel like sharing right now. i guess i will when the time comes
Raquelle- i hope you never have to experience such situation. i'm sure it can be a hard one to get through. thanks for ur opinion thou
We all pray never to find ourselves in such complex situations.Well,depending on the gravity,i'm sure i can stick wiv the person if its within my power to show him love.However if it is something that i know can be passed on to our unborn children then i'm afraid i cant go on with it cos the last thing i need is for my innocent kids to bear the brunt of my own selfish choices.
chika:
what a way to look at it! interesting
You still aint update?
G: naaa, school's killing me!
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